From Maine, I stopped in Boston to sleep, and then New York City (4th Nov. ’15, 7:30PM) was one of my first “real” stops. I was only there for a few hours- enough time to walk my dog, get a slice of pie, and get a feel for the city. I didn’t meet anyone special in the short amount of time, but the few people I talked to were quite nice and we had a good conversation about my house truck.
After New York I stopped in Oaklyn, New Jersey (5th Nov. ’15, 1:30AM). I had friends to visit; Megan, who I met while she lived in Maine, and her brother Andy’s family, but, before I met with them, I ran into a couple driving a conversion van who also liked to travel. I was parked at a Wal-Mart and they were drawn in by my house truck. We talked, got along, and they invited me to their place for a bon fire the next night. I took the offer, and just like we would back home, we hung out, including their two kids & some of their friends, had some drinks, ordered pizza, and stayed up late listening to music and talking. The next day they all took me out for breakfast. Later we played street soccer with the kids and some of the neighbor’s youngsters. When I got together with Megan and her family, we had a good time over some drinks and tunes, and I had my first “tomato pie” with them, which I loved. I’m forever thankful to all the people I spent time with in New Jersey.
From there I made it to Severn, Maryland (9th Nov. ’15, 8:00PM) where I had my first experience with couchsurfing.com. All I can say is that if I have any other CS experiences that are even half as good as my first, I’ll consider myself lucky. Victoria was everything a good host should be; warm, welcoming, and fun to hang out with. She had other guests from S. Korea that I had the pleasure to meet and get to know as well. She also brought us all on an excursion to DC, which was a first for me. We checked out the Art Gallery, Botanical Garden, and a handful of monuments including Lincoln. We even got into a game of Cattan after getting home. At first I thought I’d be staying a couple days, but I enjoyed the company so much that I ended up staying for a week.
My next stop was Washington, DC (17th Nov. ’15, 4:00PM). When I arrived, the very first person I talked to was a military man named JB. He was very talkative, and very friendly. As usual, he was initially attracted to the truck. A few days earlier, I connected with a girl named Shatha, via couchsurfing. Even though she wasn’t able to host, she offered to spend time with me while I was in DC. Initially she saw my trip on CS and loved the whole idea. She ended up buying concert tickets for us, so the next night we went to see The Wood Brothers at the 9:30 Club. Shatha is a wonderful, lovely woman, and we were immediately very comfortable together. I went to shake her hand when we first met, but she insisted on a hug. After that, we had lunch, went for a walk by a lake, and spent the rest of the day together, ending off with some live music at a cafe. Long story short, we quickly became close and even had the chance to enjoy a brief but potent romance.
The next night I landed in Fairfax, Virginia (18th Nov. ’15, after midnight). The people I met there left the biggest impression on me so far. Like my previous stop, I thought I’d stay for a few days, but it turned out to be just over a month. I split my time between Fairfax and trips to DC to play trumpet and explore the attractions. Once again, I met so many great people and became very close with many of them in a short time. I got attached and felt right at home, but not home as in Maine, but as in, where I belong. The second week there I realized I could easily stay forever. I already made a lot of friends, 3 of which I consider best friends, I fell in love, and there’s an artsy little café called Epicure that I even managed to become a regular at. It’s actually a spot Shatha took me to on the first day we got together. I didn’t want to leave, and all my new friends felt the same. The feeling and experience of connection was very strong for all of us.
I made a jaunt to Charlottesvile, Virginia (20th Nov. ’15, 6:30PM) for the weekend to visit some friends with the intention of returning to Fairfax. Naturally, I made friends everywhere. When I was unpacking my truck the first night, I heard drums coming from a nearby house, so I investigated and ran into a group of guys warming up for an online show at concertwindow.com. The next night I busked on the walking mall downtown, then went to a place called The Whiskey Jar where a nice jazz quartet was playing. I met a handful of really cool people there. One of them was the father of the sax player who was performing. He even bought me a couple drinks.
I returned to Fairfax, but had quite an urge to stay in Charlottesville. For the rest of my time in “NOVA” as they call it (Northern Virginia), I met a really good guy named Franco at the Epicure open mic, who originally came from Ecuador because of dangerous things happening back home. He initially came over to compliment me after I played “Pure Imagination” and “Somewhere Over the Rainbow” on trumpet. He thought and liked that I put a lot of passion into how I played. We had strong chemistry as musicians and as people. I was also fortunate to meet one of his best friends named Erfan (pronounced like: “air-fawn”), who was an equally genuine guy. When we all first met, we hung out on the rooftop of Erfan’s place with another mutual friend from Epicure named John (very musically gifted), drinking beer, playing guitar, singing, sharing stories, and talking about life. During my stay, Franco, Erfan, and I, had a couple other good nights at Ishtar Café, a local hookah bar. On my last night in town, Franco and I performed a song at Epicure (only practiced the same day). Most of the people I met and resonated with, I met at the café, or, through people I met there.
I would have stayed longer if I didn’t have plans to get to my Gramma’s house in Florida in time for Christmas; it’s not something I would postpone, so Dec. 17th. I headed south after dropping Franco off from the open mic. Drove until about 4AM, stopped to sleep, and was back on the road by 10am the next day. I made it to Vero Beach, FL Saturday, Dec. 19th by 3AM. I’ll be here with my Gramma and her “boyfriend” Geno. My Uncle and two cousins will be joining us for Christmas as well.
Looking back on the past month, and my trip so far, there’s no regrets. I’m grateful things have gone the way they have. It would have been nice to spend time in the Carolinas & Georgia, but I can go back. I’d do things the same way if I had the option to do it over. I’m happy I spent more time with less people, versus less time with more people. I got to know everyone, we formed bonds, and made good memories. It wouldn’t have been the same if I didn’t take my time. On top of that, they’ve all helped me grow and learn about myself, and I believe the same is true for them. Money can’t buy that, and it’s not something you find every day. So for me, when it comes to traveling, it’s not the places, it’s the people. Friendship is one of the best things we can ever be blessed with.