Before my trip began, I never gave much thought as to the types of experiences I might have, what kind of people I’d meet, and what sorts of places I would see. I left Maine hoping for the best in all of those areas, yet I had no particular ideas, expectations, or presumptions. My mind was completely open and optimistic. I’m now 48 days into my journey and I’m not even close to the halfway point (California), and, I realized a few weeks ago, that the best part of traveling has been the people, not the places.
Seeing sights and scenery is great. I really love it more than many other things… Meeting people abroad, getting to know one another, and creating memories together is something totally different. Regarding scenery and people, one is not better than the other, as I’ve mentioned, they’re simply different. You can’t compare them. However, between the two, I personally enjoy people more, and I know throughout my entire trip that the people will always be my favorite part. I can say it with plenty of confidence even though I still have yet to see what will likely be the most amazing sights on my whole trip, and probably my whole life up to this point, such as New Orleans, The Grand Canyon, or Yosemite.
I just know that this trip has connected me with such outstanding people who have shown their best, and it’s been one right after the other. For me, there’s nothing that can top that. I suppose if you think about it, it’s easy to see how the same is probably true for anyone, whether traveling or not, and whether they think about it or not, that on our path in life, from beginning to end, there’s truly nothing better to encounter than good people.
When you meet people that are genuine, kind, and resonate with who you are… let’s just call it what it is; it’s a spiritual moment, because two souls are coming together in a harmonious way. There’s a rhythm that gets synchronized and a metaphysical spark. Soon the exchanges extend beyond conversation and move to actions, and the rest is history. Once a relationship begins, every minute from that point on will enrich each of your lives. Even when the time comes for it to end, you still have the bond, feelings, and memories. Ultimately they’re always with you wherever you go. I just look at it as one of the many invisible things that adds to our individual and collective luster.